We visited the southern islands, headed up to Chiang Mai and wrapped up our trip in Bangkok.
Comparing to Western women that I was dating at that time (this was before my Latin American adventures), this Thai woman was an absolute breath of fresh air. While the West is being overrun with radical feminism and #metoo movements, Thailand is still firmly a very traditional society replete with fairly submissive women.
Even though I mostly dated white and Latin girls, one of my first trips abroad was to Thailand back in 2004.
During that trip, I met a wonderful Thai girl who I ended up traveling with around the country for a bit.
Like anywhere else in the world, there are quality women and not so quality women. If you’re into casual dating then you can ignore the signs below and keep dating the girl.
However, if you’re interested in a long-term relationship, then it certainly helps to keep the following points in my mind.1) She has lots of male friends Generally, it’s a bad sign if the woman has tons of male friends.
Generally, these are the women that themselves are more Western than the typical Thai woman.
I don’t know any man who would voluntarily friend a 50-year-old woman.2) She still keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriend This is a corollary of the previous point.
I believe that Thai women are some of the most submissive women on the planet.
Perhaps they’re like Vietnamese and Cambodian women who are also very submissive.
This is a hotly debated topic and a recent article in Bangkok Post illustrated this issue.
Here’s what one Thai woman in the article was quoted as saying: I would say there are two types of Thai women: those who only date Thai men and those who date both Thai and Western men.
For a second date, suggest something as simple as a walk somewhere or, depending on how things are going between the two of you, perhaps invite her back to your house to watch Netflix or something.